Some moments change everything
Rites of Passage Institute
We create them
Rites of Passage Institute creates life-changing experiences for young people, families, and schools for over 30 years.
Some moments change everything
Rites of Passage Institute
We create them
Rites of Passage Institute creates life-changing experiences for young people, families, and schools for over 30 years.
Programs that transform
Whether you are a parent searching for something real, a school looking for a genuine framework, or someone who wants to bring this work into the world, there is a place here for you.
Transforming
Schools
Helping schools create the conditions where young people genuinely thrive.
Leadership
Training
Learning the foundations of authentic leadership for personal growth
Parent Child
Camps
Deepen your bond with your child and learn how to support them
Public
Speaking
Inspire your community with new wisdom and ideas
Ancient method, modern transformation.
Traditional communities know something the modern world has forgotten; that life is characterised by evolution and change. Change brings challenge, and we’re not supposed to navigate challenge alone. The Rites of Passage Institute teaches tried and tested methods to help schools, organisations, and individuals transform and grow.
Ready to discover the positive power of Rites of Passage?
Meet our founder -
Dr Rubinstein Oam
“I believe that connecting with each other on a deeper level and creating genuine human experiences is how we can create and grow healthy humans and communities. Facilitating transformation the way traditional communities have always done it is the way to make real, positive, lasting impact on your community, your family, and your life.”
Our therapists bring years of experience helping people just like you—people who are tired of carrying everything alone. We use proven, evidence-based methods tailored to what you actually need, not a one-size-fits-all approach.
Whether you prefer meeting in person or from the comfort of home, whether you’re seeking individual therapy or couples counseling, we’re here to meet you where you are.
Why we exist
We are working toward a world where all people and communities thrive by reintroducing healthy Rites of Passage into modern life. For thousands of years, communities used these rituals to guide their people through life’s critical transitions. In the modern age we have lost them. And in losing many of these rituals, we have lost many of our young people.
What makes us different
Rites of Passage Institute doesn’t just run a camp and send a kid home. It works at every level simultaneously. Parents. Teachers. Schools. Ceremonies. The whole ecosystem changes, not just the individual. These aren’t team-building exercises or motivational talks. They are genuinely life-changing human experiences rooted in ancient traditions and modern psychology.
The people behind the work
Endorsed by Steve Biddulph, Maggie Dent, and John Butler. Recognised with the Order of Australia in 2024. Trusted by families, schools, and communities across 25 countries. But behind the credentials is a team of people who show up with their whole hearts for every family that comes through the door.
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“Their approach seamlessly blends ancient wisdom with modern educational practices, creating programs that resonate deeply with young people as they navigate the challenging transition to adulthood.”
Nick Johnstone
Former Principal Bishop Druitt College
"The combination of practical tools, space for self-reflection, and connection to a like-minded group of humans was incredibly powerful. It helped me step into a more grounded, clear and compassionate version of myself as a leader, facilitator and human."
Jen Ziegner
Founder, Mountains & Marathons
"It was life-changing. It gave me a framework for supporting others, but more importantly, it gave me clarity and courage in my own life. I've since brought this work to schools and communities and continue to see the ripple effects."
Lars Verburg
Founder, Rites of Passage Netherlands
"This program has been the most meaningful and significant work we have ever been part of as high school teachers, and we are so grateful for the opportunity to be part of it. We can't wait to see what the future holds for ROP at our school."
Dane Robinson
Dean of Studies, Somerset College
Byron Bay
Yarrakoora, Byron Bay NSW
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Frequently
Asked Questions
What is the Rites of Passage Institute?
We are dedicated to transforming the lives of young people, parents, educators, coaches and communities through carefully designed Rites of Passage experiences. For over 30 years, we’ve been creating programs that foster resilience, empathy, leadership, and connection.
What do you mean by a ‘Rite of Passage’?
A rite of passage is a carefully created experience that marks a transition from one stage of life to another. It helps people step into new roles with clarity and confidence for example, supporting young people in the transition from child to young adult.
Who are your programs for?
We work with young people, parents, schools, community leaders, individuals and organisations who want to create more meaningful connections, transformational leadership, and healthier futures.
How is your approach different?
Our programs are grounded in decades of research, lived experience, and ancient wisdom, while being designed for the needs of modern families, schools, and communities.